The article is devoted to the study of the formation of information and language competence in preschool and primary school age. Children of the modern world are immersed in the information space, where they manage a variety of information stored and transmitted by the culture of society. At the same time, they must be aware of the value of information, which is the Foundation of motivation to learn, be able to find and analyze information, critically evaluate information content, be able to build meaningful statements and participate in new communication situations. This article includes a theoretical analysis and description of the organization of an experimental study of the process of formation of information and language competence in children of senior preschool and primary school age. Presents the research methods, criteria and indicators characterizing the level of development of information and language competence identified and approved a complex of psycho-pedagogical conditions providing efficiency of formation at pupils and students of information and language competence. Necessary and sufficient conditions of formation of information and language competency are the use of project activity in educational process of preschool and primary General education; development and conducting series of lessons aimed at the formation of information language competence, and orientation preschool and primary school children for language tolerance in direct communication and interaction in the virtual information-educational space. The observed changes in indicators for all components of information and language competence (cognitive, motivational, value-based, reflexive-evaluative and activity-based) convincingly prove the feasibility of using these conditions. Also, the formation of information and language competence is revealed as the prevention of asocial behaviors and intolerant signs of speech aggression at a younger age.