This paper proposes a flexible interconnection device control strategy. It takes transformer power loss into account to solve the problems of voltage overrun, station load imbalance, and unbalanced transformer capacity allocation that occur after the large-scale connection of distributed power sources into the low-voltage distribution network to realize the mutual aid of active power and load balancing between interconnected stations. Firstly, the VSC control strategy with capacitor current feedback active damping link is introduced to accurately execute the power commands and maintain the DC bus voltage stability. Then, the load regulation strategy with transformer power loss is proposed to generate the power commands of the flexible interconnection device. Finally, the simulation results show that the control strategy of the flexible interconnection device with transformer power loss mentioned in this paper can flexibly control the power transmitted by each port and maintain the bus voltage stability. The simulation results show that the flexible interconnection device control strategy proposed in this paper, which takes into account the transformer power loss, can flexibly control the transmission power at each port to keep the bus voltage stable. Moreover, it can effectively reduce system loss compared with the traditional load regulation strategy.