ABSTRACT Metaphors for empathy and welcoming places abound. Oft used descriptors for grief care include a safe place, a nurturing environment, compassionate care, and meeting the person where they are. Their commonness, while a possible strength, can be a liability if meanings are presumed. Good intentions for words used do not guarantee shared meanings. For some, stories containing metaphors have greater impact than professional jargon or overused euphemisms. Further, when “workers” engage “clients” in finding or creating personal metaphors, the words or phrases can take on more depth of meaning. Readers will be encouraged to consider metaphors for caring persons and places. Drawing on a children’s book about difference between anybodies and whobodies, readers will be exposed to variations of characteristics of whobodies and whobody places. A whimsical metaphor can engage all involved in caring conversations. Think of this article as a case study toward enrichment of relationships and the milieu in which caregiving occurs.
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