Since the wave is accompanied by the transfer of energy in the process of transmission, and the energy density at the node directly affects the bearing capacity and service performance of the steel truss cable-stayed bridge members and joints, this paper quantitatively studies the energy density at the key nodes of the long-span steel truss cable-stayed bridge from the perspective of the wave response of the structure. Firstly, according to the drawings of Xiangshan Bridge, a local finite element model of the steel truss cable-stayed bridge is established, and by changing the angle between the cable and the steel truss girder and the bending stiffness of the cable, the variation law of energy density at the connection node between the cable and the steel truss girder is obtained by changing the angle between the cable and the steel truss girder and the bending stiffness of the cableway. Due to the limitations of finite element wave analysis, from the perspective of theoretical analysis, this paper establishes the local scattering matrix at the node, proves the obtained law to a certain extent, and uses the return wave-light matrix method to analyze and solve the energy density at the connection node between the cable bar and the steel truss girder, and the final analytical solution is in good agreement with the numerical solution, which proves that the law obtained by numerical analysis is correct.