This study investigates the seismic performance of the Controlled Rocking Reinforced Concrete Frame with Beam-end Hinge (CR-RCFB) system. The novelty of our research lies in the development and validation of a finite element model that accurately predicts the dynamic response of CR-RCFB structures under various seismic conditions, specifically focusing on the innovative use of joint stiffness ratios and the integration of dampers. A finite element model was developed and validated through shaking table tests. The research examined the dynamic responses of the CR-RCFB under ten ground motion records, varying the node relative stiffness ratios. The interstory displacement amplification coefficient (α) was found to range between 1.08 and 1.20, while the earthquake-reduction coefficient (β) varied from 0.8 to 0.3 depending on the stiffness ratio. Results indicate that node stiffness ratios between 0.01 and 0.25 optimize performance, minimizing peak interstory displacement and base shear response. Additionally, integrating dampers increased the damping ratio from 14.48% to 30.51%, enhancing energy dissipation by shifting absorption from plastic deformation to damper yield. Pushover analysis was used to recalculate and validate the parameters α and β, demonstrating that the integration of dampers effectively controls displacement response. These findings suggest that the CR-RCFB system with integrated dampers offers enhanced seismic resilience by reducing displacement and base shear forces compared to traditional reinforced concrete frames.