Implementing human-like learning and control for nonlinear dynamical systems operating in different control situations is an important and challenging issue. This paper presents a pattern-based neural network (NN) control strategy for nonlinear pure-feedback systems via deterministic learning (DL). Firstly, an appropriately designed adaptive neural dynamic surface controller is proposed to achieve the finite time tracking control. By analyzing the recurrent property of NN input signals, a partial persistent excitation (PE) condition for radial basis function (RBF) network is established, the implicit desired control dynamics under different control situations are accurately identified via DL in the case that the dimension of NN input is reduced. And a set of pattern-based experienced actual and virtual controllers is constructed using the learned knowledge. Secondly, to classify different control situations, when the system is operating in different control situations but controlled by current normal experienced controller, the dynamics of each subsystem are accurately identified via DL, n sets of dynamical estimators are constructed using the learned knowledge. Thirdly, in the recognition phase, n sets of residuals are achieved by comparing each set of estimators with the monitored system, sudden change in the control situation is rapidly recognized based on the principle of the earliest occurrence of the minimum residual. Finally, in the control phase, according to the recognition result, the correct experienced actual and virtual controllers will be selected to control the plant, guaranteed stability and superior control performance are achieved without any further re-adaptation online. Simulation studies are given to verify the proposed scheme can not only acquire and memorize knowledge like humans, but also reuse the learned knowledge to achieve rapid recognition and control of current control situation.