A detailed study on the first principle calculations of 2,3-diaminopyridinium selenite (2,3-DAPS) – an organometallic salt has been performed using B3LYP/6–311++G(d,p). Single crystal X-ray diffraction (XRD) analysis confirms that the crystal formed exhibits a monoclinic crystal structure, specifically belonging to the centrosymmetric space group P21/c. The obtained primitives and interfacial angles are as follows: a = 7.4978(15)Å, b = 7.6681(15) Å, c = 14.314(3) Å, α = γ = 90°, β = 93.75(3)°, and the volume of the unit cell V = 821.2(3) (Å)3. The structure was optimized with a global minimum. The natural bonding orbital charge transfer studies between the cation and anion was performed to gain insights into their electronic interactions. Energy gap and other global chemical reactivity descriptors have been computed with the aid of molecular orbital studies. The influence of solvent on the absorption spectra provided the evidence of solvent–solute interactions and their impact on the electronic transitions within the molecule. The presence of electrophilic and nucleophilic reactivity in the chemical is indicated by the molecular electrostatic potential (MEP) map. From the nonlinear optical (NLO) studies, it has been found that the first-order hyperpolarizability value is 30.771 × 10−31 esu, which is 8.252 times that of urea. This suggests that the compound may be a better non-linear optical material and suitable for laser applications. To calculate the proportion of intermolecular interactions and examine the distribution compound's electrostatic potential, a Hirshfeld surface analysis was conducted. The analysis provided insights into the spatial arrangement of molecules and their interactions. Additionally, topology path calculations elucidated the intrinsic connectivity between critical points, shedding light on the bonding characteristics within the compound. The likelihood of electron density at bonding and anti-bonding sites was also determined using the Electron Localization Function (ELF) and Localised Orbital Locator (LOL) plots. These analyses aided in understanding the electron distribution and the nature of chemical bonding within the compound, providing valuable information about its electronic structure and reactivity.