The ground state (X 1Σ+) and several excited state (A 3Π,c 3Σ+,C 1Π,D 1Σ+, andE 3Σ+) potential energy surfaces for the diatomic molecules MgAr, CdAr, and BeAr have been computed using complete active space self-consistent field (CASSCF) wavefunctions and valence double- and triplezeta quality basis sets augmented with polarization and diffuse functions. Pump-and-probe laser experiments have examined the quenching, of excited singlet states of metal-rare gas complexes such as CdXe to produce triplets that dissociate to3 P Jmetal atoms. This quenching, which is detected for CdXe but not for CdAr or MgAr, is thought to occur via a crossing or strong coupling of a repulsive triplet curve correlating to the underlying3 P state of the metal, with an attractive singlet curve that correlates to the higher1 P state of the metal. The present work indicates that the attractiveC 1Π and repulsivec 3Σ+ curves of MgAr and CdArdo not intersect in the energetically accessible region of theC 1Π surface, unlike the corresponding curves for the CdXe diatom. These data are consistent with the absence of3 P J Cd atoms in the MgAr and CdAr experiments, respectively. However, an alternative quenching mechanism involving “vibronic” coupling between theC 1Π vibrational eigenstates and the continuum eigenstates of the underlying repulsive3Σ+ surface may be operative; this possibility is examined qualitatively and predicted to be unlikely for MgAr (due to small spin-orbit coupling) and CdAr (due to unfavorable vibronic factors). BeAr, which has yet to be probed experimentally, is predicted to be bound by 770 and 900 cm−1 in theD 1Σ+ state (which has metal 2s2p character) and theE 3Σ+ state (which has Rydberg metal 2s3s character), respectively, and to display interesting potential curve intersections.