A well-orchestrated coupling hierarchy of slow waves and spindles during slow wave sleep supports memory consolidation. In old age, duration of slow wave sleep and number of coupling events decreases. The coupling hierarchy deteriorates, predicting memory loss and brain atrophy. Here, we investigate the dynamics of this physiological change in slow wave-spindle coupling in a frontocentral electroencephalography position in a large sample (N=340, 237 female, 103 male) spanning most of the human lifespan (ages 15-83). We find that, instead of changing abruptly, spindles gradually shift from being driven by-, to driving slow waves with age, reversing the coupling hierarchy typically seen in younger brains. Reversal was stronger the lower the slow wave frequency, and starts around midlife (∼age 40-48), with an established reversed hierarchy at age 56-83. Notably, coupling strength remains unaffected by age. In older adults, deteriorating slow wave-spindle coupling, measured using phase slope index (PSI) and number of coupling events, is associated with blood plasma glial fibrillary acidic protein (GFAP) levels, a marker for astrocyte activation. Data-driven models suggest decreased sleep time and higher age lead to fewer coupling events, paralleled by increased astrocyte activation. Counterintuitively, astrocyte activation is associated with a back-shift of the coupling hierarchy (PSI) towards a "younger" status along with increased coupling occurrence and strength, potentially suggesting compensatory processes. As the changes in coupling hierarchy occur gradually starting at midlife, we suggest there exists a sizable window of opportunity for early interventions to counteract undesirable trajectories associated with neurodegeneration.Significance StatementEvidence accumulates that sleep disturbances and cognitive decline are bi-directionally and causally linked forming a vicious cycle. Improving sleep quality could break this cycle. One marker for sleep quality is a clear hierarchical structure of sleep oscillations. Previous studies showed that sleep oscillations decouple in old age. Here, we show that, rather, the hierarchical structure gradually shifts across the human lifespan and reverses in old age, while coupling strength remains unchanged. This shift is associated with markers for astrocyte activation in old age. The shifting hierarchy resembles brain maturation, plateau, and wear processes. This study furthers our comprehension of this important neurophysiological process and its dynamic evolution across the human lifespan.