Scanning thermal microscopy (SThM) is a scanning probe technique aimed at quantitative characterization of local thermal properties at the length scale down to tens of nanometers. With many probe designs and approaches to interpretation of probe responses, there is a need for a universal framework, which would allow probe calibration and comparison of probe performance. Herein, a calibration framework based on an abstracted, formal, probe model for active SThM probes is developed. The calibration can be accomplished through measurements with two or three calibration samples. Requirements for calibration samples are described with examples of structures of suitable samples identified in published literature. A link to a published experimental work indirectly verifying the proposed procedure is provided. The calibration does not require knowledge of internal probe properties and yields a small and universal set of parameters that can be used to quantify thermal resistance presented to the probe by samples as well as to characterize active‐mode SThM probes of any type and at any measurement frequency. How the probe calibration parameters can be used to guide probe design is illustrated. When the calibration approach can be used directly to measure the thermal conductivity of unknown samples is also analyzed.