High-strength and high-thermal-conductivity composite materials have become crucial requirements for thermal control systems in various field. Carbon fiber-reinforced polymer (CFRP) has demonstrated potential superior performance. However, the application of CFRP is limited by the chemical inertness of the carbon fiber surface and the shortness of low surface energy. Therefore, surface modification of carbon fibers is necessary. This research employs a pulse plasma discharge method, to in-situ grow graphene on the surface of carbon fibers by disrupting some polymer structures on the carbon fiber surface in a “bottom-up” approach. This method offers advantages such as rapid, simple, convenient, economical, and environmentally friendly preparation process., the modified carbon fibers used in CFRP exhibit superior mechanical and thermal conductivity properties. The flexural strength increased by 218 % to reach 109.5 MPa, and the thermal conductivity increased by 251 % to achieve 1.153 W/(m*K).