Isabel Fredericson lived a long and fruitful life, tapping into the hearts of many people. I have the distinction of having met her in kindergarten where we started our schooling by making butter together. We knew each other over the many subsequent years but only on a casual basis, as schoolmates. Then I became more closely connected with her when she entered into the Gestalt Community in Cleveland. There, I came to know her at a very different level, one which honored the sharpness of her mind, the kindness of her spirit, and the promise of new views about life. She was a quiet force, but everybody around her knew that when she said something it was unadorned insight and created a simple connectedness. I remember one time when I was in a group with her and was lamenting the fact that I had little guidance in my growing up years. She said to me, “That may be one of your great assets.” That simple observation was a rich testament to the hidden advantages we grow up with, and I accepted it as a new perspective on what matters.I spent many years of friendship with her and Joseph Handlon, her husband. They were a marvelous example of mutual admiration and simple togetherness. I would love to see her smile once more and to honor the fact that she made me feel the familiarity of coming home again. She did this for many people because the simple feeling of being at home seemed to come very naturally to her. I salute Isabel in our long-time friendship and with the love that colored the spirit of our times together.
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