Energy management systems (EMS), as enablers of more efficient energy consumption, monitor and manage appliances to help residents be more energy efficient and thus more frugal. Recent appliance detection and identification techniques for such systems rely on machine learning. However, machine learning solutions for appliance classification on existing low-frequency household metering have not yet been thoroughly investigated. In this paper, we propose CARMEL, a new approach for identifying home appliances from load monitoring in building EMS based on a new data representation technique and a new model that leverages spatio-temporal correlations in the new representation. The proposed data representation technique performs dimensionality expansion of time series that scales linearly, rather than quadratically and, together with the proposed model, outperform the state of the art image transformation models by 5 percentage points. Evaluation on 5 different low-frequency household metering datasets, considering 29 appliances in total, shows that the proposed representation and the corresponding resource-aware deep learning architecture (1) achieve an average weighted F1 score of 0.92 and (2) require only 230 labeled samples and 3x fewer epochs to transfer to new households.