The vibrational relaxation of pure N 2O was studied behind shock waves in the temperature range 450–1750 K using a laser beam deflection technique. It is shown that the phenomenological relaxation time,τ′, is not a time-independent constant. Below 1200 K it increases with time; above 1200 K it decreases with time. The many disparate results in the literature are reconciled in terms of a mechanism whereby the step N 2O(0, 0, 0) → N 2O(0, 1, 0) is rate determining at low temperatures when the ν 3 mode is not involved, and the parallel step N 2O(1, 0, 0) + N 2O(0, 0, 0) → N 2O(0, 2, 0) + N 2O(0, 1, 0) takes over at high temperatures close to equilibrium. Rate constants for these processes are extracted from the limiting far-from equilibrium relaxation time, i.e. from τ′(0), where log pτ′(0) = 11.0 T −1 3 −1.67 (in atm μs), and from the limiting near-equilibrium relaxation time, i.e. from τ′(∞), where log pτ′(∞) = 19.4 T −1 3 −2.46 (in atm μs). The relaxation process was simulated by solving the master equation numerically. All energy levels up to 5930 cm −1 connected by all possible VT and inter- and intra-molecular VV processes were included, subject to the restriction that the energy gap ¦Δϵ¦ 700 cm −1. Microscopic rate coefficients, scaled according to ϵ exp(− C ¦Δϵ¦), were assigned, reducing the problem to one of three parameters: C (for VT processes), C VV (for VV processes) and k 01 10/ k 10, where k 10 is the rate constant for N 2O(0, 1, 0) → N 2O(0, 0, 0) and k 01 10 that for N 2O(0, 0, 0) + N 2O(0, 1, 0) → N 2O(0, 0, 0)+N 2O(0,1,0). Computer simulations of shock-induced and laser-induced relaxation are made. They are interpreted in terms of the three parameters. There was semi-quantitative agreement with our experimental results, which are consistent with values for C = 0.0038 cm at room temperature; C VV = 0.021 → 0.0065 cm, and k 01 10/ k 10 ⩽ 5000 → 12.7 in the range 300 → 1800 K. It was further found that intermolecular VV processes are responsible for the time dependence of τ′, and that the increasing density of states accessible at longer times and at higher temperatures is responsible for the change in mechanism.