This paper explores a practical approach to pelvic floor health called the Skilling technique. Unlike the commonly recommended "squeezing upwards" method which teaches a woman to voluntarily squeeze upwards (a learnt technique), the Skilling method is entirely reflex: the squatting-based exercises on which it is based, strengthen the three reflex pelvic muscle forces which pull against the suspensory ligaments pubourethral ligament (PUL) and uterosacral ligament (USL) to: close the urethra during effort (control of stress incontinence), open the urethra during micturition, and stretch the vagina in opposite directions to control inappropriate activation of the micturition reflex [overactive bladder (OAB)]. The strengthened ligaments better support the pelvic visceral plexuses (VPs), which unsupported, can fire off de novo impulses which the brain interprets as "chronic pelvic pain". This review investigates the impact of the Skilling technique on pain, bladder and bowel symptoms in women. In premenopausal women, results show a 50% symptom improvement in 68% to 82% of women who have chronic pelvic pain, urge, frequency, nocturia, abnormal emptying, and post-void residual urine. A modified Skilling technique was applied in children aged 6-11 years with day/night enuresis. Remarkably, an 86% cure rate was achieved over 4 months. It was hypothesized that this accelerated cure, which is achieved naturally with age, may be connected to the reinforcement of collagen which occurs with the increase in pubertal hormones. In summary, the Skilling technique is a promising and accessible method to enhance pelvic floor health for both women and children, offering a practical alternative to traditional approached like Kegel exercises.