The realization of a lasting marriage is the dream of every human being and not a few of them consider that love is the only key to realizing the dream marriage. In this study, researchers took the perspective of a da'i figure named Syafiq bin Riza bin Hasan bin Abdul Qadir bin Salim bin Zen Basalamah who is one of the S1, S2, and S3 graduate students from the Islamic University of Madinah faculty of da'wah and usuluddin and has plunged into the world of da'wah more or less since 2014 until now starting from Java to outside Java. The purpose of this study is to provide information on the steps for marriage to be realized and last a long time perspective of Syafiq Riza Basalamah. This research method uses a type of qualitative approach through literature studies, where the source of data obtained is from books and several scientific works. The result of this study is that among the elements other than love to maintain marriage, Syafiq Riza Basalamah's perspective is prioritizing good religion and noble morals in choosing a partner when getting married, associating with the family because of Allah, namely with Islam, faith, and ihsan, trying to see the strengths of his partner, and the existence of tolerance and mutual understanding.