Structural characterization of gas-phase [M,C,2H]+ (M = Ta, Ir, Pt), formed by reacting laser ablation formed M+ with ethylene oxide (c-C2H4O) or methane under multiple collision conditions, is achieved using infrared multiple-photon dissociation (IR-MPD) spectroscopy with the intracavity free-electron laser FELICE. After product formation, part of the product distribution is complexed with Ar, allowing for simultaneous recording of IR-MPD spectra of both bare [M,C,2H]+, which dissociates via dehydrogenation, and [M,C,2H]+∙Ar, which loses Ar. Comparison of the spectra with density functional theory (DFT) calculations allows for an internally consistent assignment of the spectra to the Ta+CH2 (3A′′) distorted carbene, Pt+CH2 (2A1) carbene, and to the HIr+CH (1A′) carbyne-hydride. Evidence for a symmetric Ta+CH2∙Ar (3B2) complex is also obtained. For Pt and Ir, these structures match those found in previous work when these species were formed by reaction of M+ with methane, CH4 and CD4. Under the current conditions, no clear signs of the previously observed Ir+CH2 (3A2) carbene product were found, consistent with its higher energy, especially after Ar complexation. Potential energy surfaces for the reactions of Pt+ and Ir+ with c-C2H4O are also computed.