The study of competitive adsorption of heavy metals on soil is important for heavy metals contaminated soil remediation. However, there have been few studies on the impact of desorption reagents on heavy metal adsorption in soil. Batch adsorption studies were used to investigate the competitive adsorption mechanism of two heavy metals, Pb and Zn, on a loess soil in the presence of a new chelating surfactant, sodium N-lauroyl ethylenediamine triacetate (LED3A). Results showed that competitive adsorption equilibria of Pb and Zn were reached at 3 and 10 h, respectively. The maximum equilibrium adsorption capacities were 19.55 and 18.35 g.kg-1, respectively. LED3A affected the competitive adsorption kinetics of Pb and Zn by increasing the change in external mass transfer and reducing the change in internal mass transfer. LED3A reduced Pb and Zn adsorption capacities onto the soil through competitive chelation of the heavy metals. The heavy metal chelating ability of LED3A was higher for Zn than for Pb. When its concentration was larger than 5 g.L-1, LED3A showed a significant effect on the competitive adsorption of Pb and Zn. In the competitive system, the effect of Pb concentration on the Zn adsorption capacity was greater than the effect of Zn concentration on the Pb adsorption capacity. LED3A weakened the effect of Pb concentration and enhanced the effect of Zn concentration. LED3A showed a significant potential for efficiently leaching remediation of Pb and Zn co-contaminated soil.