A fundamental question in evolutionary biology is how phenotypic variation is maintained in the face of selection that ought to deplete that variation. Much research has investigated this question in traits favored via sexual selection in males, with a common solution implicating the condition dependence of sexually selected phenotypes. Despite growing interest in sexual selection on females, it is not clear if the same mechanisms maintain variation in female ornaments, weaponry or other female behaviors targeted by sexual selection. An important step in testing condition dependence in females is thus to identify whether sexually selected female phenotypes are associated with condition and also with potential costs. Here, I examine these two components of condition dependence for a sexually selected behavior, intrasexual aggression, in female tree swallows Tachycineta bicolor. I asked whether high levels of intrasexual aggression map onto natural variation in female condition and whether aggression is associated with one potential behavioral cost: performance in a vertically challenging test of flight. More aggressive females were heavier for their body size, heavier for their wing size and showed decreased flight ability, relative to less aggressive females. These findings are consistent with condition dependence, where only females in better condition are able to be highly aggressive. The association between high aggression and reduced flight ability may result from the additional lift required to power these relatively heavier birds. These associations between natural variation in aggressive behavior, morphology and flight ability are consistent with condition dependence because they confirm two basic assumptions of condition dependence: a link between aggression and condition, and a link between aggression and a behavioral cost, the speed of escape flight. As the first study to examine these assumptions for a conspicuous behavior favored by intrasexual selection in females, this study suggests broad relevance of condition dependence.