Indian society has placed on women for centuries. I savour the sweet taste of freedom that many of my friends and family yearn for. I am 21 years old, and already I'm an independent career woman, and my father and brothers treat me with the dignity and respect I deserve. But sadly, some Indian women are trapped into submissiveness, and their struggle to break free continues. Although I'm South African by birth, I am still viewed as an Indian woman. For many Indian women, basic human rights exist only in theory, because they are treated according to outdated and misinterpreted customs and traditions that originated in India. This is because those who practice many oppressive traditions ignore the fact that women's rights in India have been prevalent since 1966, when Indira Nehru Gandhi was elected as India's first female prime minister and became one of the world's first female leaders of a democratic country. Since 1981, organisations such as the All India Democratic Women's Association1 have been founded to ensure democracy, equality and women's emancipation, regardless of a woman's caste, class and community (Kings College, 1998). Many still choose to believe that rights for women are non-existent in India and consequently use it as an excuse to exercise oppressive practices in their homes here, in South Africa. What they fail to understand is that India is not a homogenous country. It consists of more than 1.1 billion people_ representing more than ten religious and ethnic groups. Although more than 80% of Indians consider themselves to be Hindus, when analysing the way in which women are treated in India according to traditions and beliefs, it is important to note that the Muslim population of India constitutes 13.4%, and there are a fair amount of Christians, Sikhs and Buddhists (Wikipedia Encyclopedia, 2007). As John Baptist Thakur, chairman of the Commission for Women of the Catholic Bishops Conference of India, said, 'Women have suffered discrimination and been the victims of violence not only for cultural reasons but also because out of ignorance' (Spero News, 2007). In Indian cities, women's oppression is quickly becoming a thing of the past, as modernisation and industrialisation take over and more women become educated and financially independent. However, in rural villages, where people are generally less educated, women are still being exploited. To give you an idea, India's latest National Family Health Survey (NFHS) conducted by India's Women and Family Welfare Ministry indicated that 58.5% of women in North Indian villages face physical,