Motivated by various physical, cellular and ecological applications, there has been a recent resurgence of interest in studying the boundary adsorption-desorption of diffusive substances between a bulk (body) and a surface, by using “bulk-surface models” (involving volumetric densities and surface densities) or by using models involving dynamical boundary conditions for volumetric densities. The surface in the models has no thickness. However, in some real world applications, the “surface” is actually a thin membrane, having positive, albeit small thickness δ, as in the cases of thermal barrier coatings for turbine engine blades and cell membranes. In such situations, rigorous derivations for these models seem lacking and desirable. In this paper, we start with two full models each of which contains reaction-diffusion equations in the bulk and the thin membrane, respectively, with two types of reasonable transmission conditions linking the two. Then in the limit of δ→0, we obtain two effective models, with one being a bulk-surface model and the other being the dynamical boundary value problem model, from which we can also recover the surface density of the other substance. Our analysis reveals that to have such effective models, it is crucial that (i) appropriate transmission conditions are satisfied on the interface between the bulk and the thin membrane, and (ii) the diffusion tensor in the thin membrane is “optimally aligned”, which means the principal axes of the tensor are either normal or tangential to the interface.