A honey bee can dip nectar of viscosity across two orders of magnitude, by viscous lapping technique using a segmental tongue covered with erectable hairs. The drinking technique suffers risks of leakage occurring between tongue hairs, and the amount of leakage is related to hair spacing as well as nectar viscosity. When lapping, tongue segments are elongated, which enlarges the hair spacing in longitudinal direction. Experimental observations show that the hair spacing of tongue increases with respect to sucrose solution concentration until it reaches the maximum extension when sucrose solution concentration is above 35%. Considering leakage occurring in the hairy tongue, we hypothesize that the dynamical extension of hair spacing may help honey bees minimize the effects of leakage to reach maximal nectar intake rate. A mathematical model is developed for determining the optimal hair spacing that can meet the demands of both augmenting the nectar intake rate and reducing the risk of leakage. Theoretical prediction and experimental measurements demonstrate honey bees are able to adjust the tongue to meet the optimal hair spacing when dipping nectar of concentration more dilute than 35% and maintain a maximum extension to improve the nectar intake rate when concentration is greater than 35%. We then give the prediction of concentration preferences of three bee species, and discuss effects of dipping frequency and gravity on the leakiness between tongue hairs. This work may not only gain insights into adaptive feeding strategy in insects, but inspire the design of adaptive microfluidic transport devices with dynamic brushy surfaces.