The recent discovery of the $A{\mathrm{V}}_{3}{\mathrm{Sb}}_{5}$ ($A=\mathrm{K}$, Rb, Cs) material family offers an exciting opportunity to investigate the interplay of correlations, topology, and superconductivity in kagome metals. The low-energy physics of these materials is dominated by an unusual charge density wave phase, but little is understood about the true nature of the order parameter. In this work, we use a combination of ultrafast coherent phonon spectroscopy and first-principles density functional theory calculations to investigate the charge density wave order in ${\mathrm{CsV}}_{3}{\mathrm{Sb}}_{5}$. We find that the charge density wave is the result of a simultaneous condensation of three optical phonon modes at one $M$ and two $L$ points. This distortion can be described as tri-hexagonal ordering with an interlayer modulation along the $c$ axis. It breaks the ${C}_{6}$ rotational symmetry of the crystal and may offer a natural explanation for reports of uniaxial order at lower temperatures in this material family.