This study investigates the response of a laminar methane-air flame to Nanosecond Repetitively Pulsed (NRP) discharges in a canonical wall-stabilized burner using a combined experimental and numerical approach. The flow and flame behaviors were modeled using Direct Numerical Simulation (DNS) with an Analytically Reduced Chemistry for a precise chemical description. A phenomenological model incorporating detailed plasma kinetics and experimental observations was developed to simulate plasma effects. Zero-dimensional plasma reactor simulations were used to build up a reduced-order model describing discharge energy distribution in the specific conditions studied. Experimental measurements of electrical profiles identified two discharge regimes: a low-energy Corona discharge and a higher-energy Glow discharge, characterized by distinct spatial energy distributions. Experimental flame response analysis revealed three major phases: marginal response up to 100 pulses, a downstream shift of the flame tip, and stabilization after 400 pulses. Numerical simulations indicated that the Corona regime is crucial for explaining initial flame responses, while the Glow regime influences later stages. Adjustments in the Vibrational-Translational (VT) energy relaxation time and energy deposition ratios between fresh and burnt gases were necessary to match experimental observations. Additionally, an accurate modeling of the transient and steady-state flame responses requires integrating both the specificity of the Corona and the Glow discharge regimes. Future work should focus on measuring or theoretically calculating N2(v) relaxation times in CH4-H2O-CO2 mixtures and analyzing the spatial energy distribution of discharges interacting with flames to enhance plasma-combustion coupled models.Novelty and significanceIn this work, a phenomenological plasma-assisted combustion model has been developed, to investigate a laminar premixed stagnation plate burner, focusing on VT energy relaxation time and spatio-temporal energy distribution modeling. For the first time, not only O2, N2 and O but also the fuel and combustion intermediates and products have been considered in the VT relaxation model. It revealed their strong influence on the overall flame response in a case where the discharge crosses a flame front, highlighting the strong beneficial effect of energy deposited in vibrational form. The study questions and investigates the energy distribution from fresh to burnt gases, challenging the conventional uniform energy distribution assumption. The experimental identification of two specific plasma regimes was necessary to predict the transient flame response. Additionally, energy deposited downstream of the flame, in fresh gases, was found to more efficient than in hot gases to enhance combustion.