Unpaid carers make a substantial contribution to the health economy and carers of palliative patients are particularly vulnerable due to special patient needs and excessive carer burden. The Australian Government recently implemented the Integrated Carer Support Service Model to provide a range of free services to carers in the community. However, it is unclear whether such initiatives are effective and, more importantly, how carers of palliative patients gain access to information, support and services for the patient and themselves. We sought to investigate unpaid carers' experiences in accessing information and resources for support with patient care with a specific focus on palliative care resources and to determine carers' access to information and support for self-care. We also aimed to identify what opportunities and challenges remain for these particular carers according to their experiences. We conducted 18 semi-structured interviews and 3 focus groups with unpaid family or friend carers of palliative patients in South Australia from metropolitan, regional and rural communities. Grounded in a descriptive phenomenological paradigm, we conducted a hybrid approach to thematic analysis combining deductive and inductive coding following Fereday and Muir-Cochrane's method. The government's web-based initiative provided little impact in supporting carers from our cohort. There remains a substantial gap between the formal recognition of the importance of carers and their lived reality. This recognition by health professionals is vital, as carer self-identification is not common and affects help-seeking behaviour. Carers seek and respond to more grassroots, personalized forms of support and sharing of information. The lack of self-identification affects carers' help-seeking behaviours. Carer identification and recognition need to be initiated by health professionals in a proactive manner to ensure carers are prepared for their role and are emotionally supported to sustain it. Carers seek face-to-face guidance and sources of information.