AbstractThe cyclic loading experiments on HP‐172B sealant bonded tubular butt‐joints were carried out with the strain‐controlled mode, and the effects of strain amplitude and mean strain on the cyclic relaxation stress and cyclic softening variable of the bonded butt‐joint were investigated. The experimental results show that the stress–strain response curve of the butt‐joint presents a corrugated shape under cyclic loading. The cyclic stress relaxation and cyclic softening of the bonded butt‐joint occur. The increase of mean strain and strain amplitude intensifies the cyclic stress relaxation and cyclic softening behaviors. According to the experimental observation, a nonlinear viscoelastic model is proposed to predict the mechanical behavior of butt‐joints under cyclic loading, which considers the cyclic stress relaxation and cyclic softening of the bonded butt‐joint. The comparisons between the model calculation and the experimental data show that the calculated stress–strain curve is in good agreement with the experimental data.