This article investigates the soft-interior (se) and the soft-cover (sc) of operator ideals. These operations, and especially the first one, have been widely used before, but making their role explicit and analyzing their interplay with the arithmetic mean operations is essential for the study in [10] of the multiplicity of traces. Many classical ideals are ‘soft’, i.e., coincide with their soft interior or with their soft cover, and many ideal constructions yield soft ideals. Arithmetic mean (am) operations were proven to be intrinsic to the theory of operator ideals in [6, 7] and arithmetic mean operations at infinity (am-∞) were studied in [10]. Here we focus on the commutation relations between these operations and soft operations. In the process we characterize the am-interior and the am-∞ interior of an ideal.