Underwater soft manipulators are increasingly used for grasping underwater organisms and cultural relics due to their compliance and ability to protect delicate objects. Unlike rigid manipulators, these soft manipulators feature underwater soft bending actuators that deform under external forces, making their shape and output force challenging to predict. Consequently, classical beam theory is no longer applicable. To address these issues, this article models the underwater soft bending actuator as a cantilever beam and establishes its shape and output force using elliptic integral functions. Additionally, this article proposes a method for determining the unknown parameters of the driver shape and output force model using optimization techniques and introduces a solution process based on the particle swarm optimization framework. Given the role of tensile and bending stiffness in the actuator’s performance, this paper employs a parameter identification method based on length and bending angle information. Tests demonstrate that the proposed method effectively estimates the deformation and output force of the underwater soft bending actuators, confirming its accuracy.