Extreme limited entry (XLE) method can enhance hydraulic fracture uniformity by elevating wellbore pressure to overcome reservoir heterogeneity. However, it increases surface pressure and decreases hydraulic fracturing efficiency. In this paper, the effects of stress shadow and heterogeneity of the lateral breakdown pressure on fracture propagation are numerically studied, from which an optimization method is proposed for the XLE design with the minimal requirement of fracturing pressure. Initially, the unconventional fracture model is applied to analyze fracture propagation in formations with homogeneous geomechanical parameters and various perforation designs. Fracture length distribution is correlated with perforation friction, revealing insights into the influence of geomechanical parameters and fracture spacing. Then, the uniformity of fracture propagation is assessed for different XLE designs by varying lateral breakdown pressures. Simulation results are utilized to develop a cross-plot of fracture length distributions vs normalized perforation frictions for optimizing an XLE design. In homogeneous reservoirs, decreasing perforation spacing and increasing perforation hole erosion rate slow down the reduction in the fracture length distribution span with perforation friction, necessitating a higher perforation friction for uniform fractures. In all simulated cases, a similar trend is observed when the distribution of fracture lengths is plotted vs the normalized perforation friction to the difference of breakdown pressure within one fracturing stage. It is recommended that this normalized value be maintained above 2 in an XLE design. This new plot makes the conventional horn-shaped plot more applicable to reservoirs with heterogeneous lateral breakdown pressures.