Reviewed by: Family Empires, Roman and Christian by Susan M. (Elli) Elliott Zeba Crook susan m. (elli) elliott, Family Empires, Roman and Christian, vol. 1, Roman Family Empires: Household, Empire, Resistance (Salem, OR: Polebridge, 2018). Pp. xii + 337. Paper $27. It is commonly said that kinship was a key feature of ancient social experience and existence. Susan Elliott takes that claim one step further to show in an accessible way how the ancient Roman family and its values were all things to all people. They provided the emperor with a governing analogy for his empire; the emperor's policies shaped family values; and both those family values and their imperial instantiation were a common point of resistance. This book is divided into five parts: (1) a comparison of two family models—the Strict Father model, and the Nurturant Parent model, based on the work of linguist George Lakoff; (2) a summary of Roman Strict Father family structure, including the players and their stages; (3) an explanation of how this structure was co-opted by the Roman Empire; (4) an illustration of intellectual, ritual, and armed resistance to the Roman Empire; and, finally, (5) an analysis of Philemon. What sets this book apart from others on the ancient family is an interest in setting the discussion in the context of modern American political debates. George Lakoff is an American linguist who has argued that Democrats and Republicans are similar to each other in that they both operate with the notion of the nation-as-parent. In chap. 1, E. compares the Strict Father model and the Nurturant Parent model of the nation-as-parent. On the Strict Father model, the father embodies moral strength, and his role is to protect the family, enforce the rules, and prepare children for survival. The mother's role is to uphold the father's authority, and the children's role is to obey. On the Nurturant Parent model, the "parent" (not only the father) protects the family and clearly explains decisions, a form of [End Page 728] egalitarianism. There is no distinct role for mothers, and the goal of children is to live fulfilled and happy lives. On the Strict Father model, moral order is timeless and traditional, while on the Nurturant Parent model it is based in fairness and human interdependence. As a root metaphor for government, the job of a "strict father" government is to uphold the moral character of the nation and protect it from external threats. The job of the "nurturant parent" government is to promote equity, to foster a climate of respect, and to cooperate with (not dominate over) other nations. After a brief chapter on the study of ancient family, empire studies, and generally reading against the grain (chap. 2), the next eleven chapters run through the usual material in the usual way on Roman domestic architecture (chap. 3), family member roles (chap. 4), slavery (chap. 5), marriage, sex, and divorce (chap. 6), Augustus as paterfamilias (chap. 7), Augustan family legislation (chap. 8), and imperial cult (chap. 9). E. then turns to the topic of resistance to the Strict Father imperial model—armed resistance (chap. 10), intellectual resistance (surely not the best way of categorizing Essenes and Cynics; chap. 11), ritual resistance (a term I really do like for the mystery religions; chap. 12), and communal meals and voluntary associations (chap. 13). The final two chapters focus on Paul's letter to Philemon, chap. 14 running through the options for the occasion of the letter, and chap. 15 covering the letter commentary-style. E.'s reading of the letter is sensitive to ancient social context, and evocative in its narrative. In it, she surmises that Paul was encouraging the audience to live in an alternative way to the Strict Father family model of the empire. This book is interesting and readable, but it is unclear who its target audience is. In some ways, the book seems directed at a nonspecialist readership: the number of images and summary tables, the use of art to situate many of the ancient analyses, the terms that are explicitly defined for the reader (alphabetic footnotes in, oddly, just one of her chapters), the infuriating...