In this paper, reconfigurable intelligent surface (RIS) and hybrid automatic repeat request with incremental redundancy (HARQ-IR) are amalgamated to lower power expenditure, shorten latency and strengthen reliability of the internet of things (IoT) communications. By considering Rician fading channels and multiple RISs, the outage probability of single-input single-output (SISO) HARQ-IR-RIS aided IoT networks is derived in closed-form, with which the asymptotic outage analysis is carried out. The asymptotic results are further extended to single-input multiple-output (SIMO)/multiple-input multiple-output (MIMO) HARQ-IR-RIS aided IoT networks by using random matrix theory. Thereafter, the asymptotic expressions are invoked to reduce the design complexity of the phase shifts, transmit powers, and rate, which aims at minimizing the age of information (AoI) while ensuring the power and outage constraints. Particularly, the optimal phase shifts are firstly determined. The alternating optimization technique is then applied to solve the transmit rate and powers, which are iteratively updated based on majorization-minimization (MM) principle and geometric programming (GP) approximation, respectively. The numerical results consequently corroborate our theoretical analysis. More interestingly, the HARQ-IR-aided scheme with fixed power is found to provide a comparable performance as the proposed scheme with variable power especially for numerous reflecting elements at RIS.