SynopsisSexual systems vary greatly across molluscs. This diversity includes simultaneous hermaphroditism, with both sexes functional at the same time. Most nudibranch molluscs are thought to be simultaneous hermaphrodites, but detailed studies of reproductive development and timing remain rare as most species cannot be cultured in the lab. The aeolid nudibranch, Berghia stephanieae, is one such species that can be cultured through multiple generations on the benchtop. We studied B. stephanieae reproductive timing to establish when animals first exchange sperm and how long sperm can be stored. We isolated age- and size-matched individuals at sequential timepoints to learn how early individuals can exchange sperm. Individuals isolated at 10 weeks post initial feeding (wpf; ∼13 weeks postlaying [wpl]) can produce fertilized eggs. This is 6 weeks before animals first lay egg masses, indicating that sperm exchange occurs well before individuals are capable of laying eggs. Our results indicate that male gonads become functional for animals between 6 mm (∼6 wpf, ∼9 wpl) and 9 mm (∼12 wpf, ∼15 wpl) in length. That is much smaller (and sooner) than the size (and age) of individuals at first laying (12–19 mm; ∼16 wpf, ∼19 wpl), indicating that male and female functions do not develop simultaneously. We also tracked the number of fertilized eggs in each egg mass, which remained steady for the first 10–15 egg masses, followed by a decline to near-to-no fertilization. This dataset provides insights into the precise timing of the onset of functionality of the male and female reproductive systems in B. stephanieae. These data contribute to a broader understanding of reproductive development and the potential for understanding the evolution of diverse sexual systems in molluscs.