Starch and sucrose metabolism and plant-pathogen interaction pathways play a dominate role in recessive genic male sterility (RGMS) of cabbage (Brassica oleracea L. var. capitata). RGMS is common in plants and has been widely applied as an effective and economic system for hybrid seed production in many crops. However, little is known regarding the molecular mechanisms of RGMS in cabbage. Hence, full-length transcriptomic and physiological analysis were performed in the spontaneous RGMS mutant RMS3185A and its near-isogenic fertile line (NIL) RMS3185B of small (< 1.6mm in diameter), medium (~ 2.5mm in diameter), and large floral buds (~ 3.4mm in diameter) to identify the differentially expressed genes (DEGs) associated with RMGS. The pollen abnormalities between RMS3185B and RMS3185A appeared at the large floral bud stage. In contrast with RMS3185B, the mature anthers and stamens of RMS3185A were shorter than those of RMS3185B, and the anthers did not dehiscent. The concentrations of glucose, fructose, trehalose, starch, and cellulose in RMS3185A were all significantly lower than those in large floral buds of RMS3185B. PacBio sequencing results showed that DEGs were mainly concentrated in large floral bud stage. In combination with the KEGG enrichment analysis of DEGs in GO terms related to cell wall, pollen and anther, pentose and glucuronate interconversions (ko00040), starch and sucrose metabolism (ko00500), and plant-pathogen interaction (ko04626) were significantly enriched. Among which, cell-wall/pectin-related genes of eighteen PEI, twenty-two PEL, three PG, and fifteen PGL involved in ko00040, and one UGDH, one SPS, four CWINV, four TPP/TPS, and four EGL involved in ko00500, as well as plant-pathogen interaction genes, including sixteen calcium-dependent protein kinase (CDPK), one cyclic nucleotide-gated ion channel (CNGC), and twenty-three calcium-binding protein CML (CML), were significantly down-regulated in RMS3185A relative to that in RMS3185B. Besides, genes involved in ko04626, including two CML and one transcription factor WRKY33, were up-regulated in RMS3185A relative to that in RMS3185B. In conclusion, we hypothesized that the expression alterations of these genes were responsible for calcium signaling and sugar metabolism, thus affecting the occurrence of RGMS in cabbage.