The C/SiC–Cu3Si–Cu interpenetrating composites were prepared by the ceramization and metallization of carbon fiber reinforced carbon aerogel (C/CA) preforms. Fracture mechanical and ablation behaviors as well as their dependence on metal addition and PyC interface thickness were investigated. With the presence of metallic components, the C/SiC–Cu3Si–Cu composites show pseudo-plastic fracture, typical brittle-plastic mixed fracture, and then ladder-like fracture with the PyC interface thickness increasing due to the co-existence of ductile and brittle components, obviously different from the fracture of conventional ceramic matrix composites. The composite with 3.0 μm-thick interface has the highest flexural strength of 292.8 MPa due to the proper interfacial bond strength and residual compressive stress. The composite with 1.9 μm-thick interface has the highest work of fracture but relatively low fracture toughness due to the abundant modes of crack propagation. The anti-ablation property is deteriorated with increased PyC thickness due to the weakened transpiration cooling effect and reduced oxide scale quality. The composite with 0.9 μm-thick interface exhibits lower mass and linear ablation rates of 0.054 mg cm−2 s−1 and 0.018 μm s−1 after ablation at 2200 °C for 600 s, respectively. This work provides vital insights into the control of the overall performance of carbon fiber reinforced ceramic-metal matrix composites.