Sibling Relationship Troubles and Well-Being in Middle and Old Age* Victoria Hilkevitch Bedford** The purpose of this stud) was to investigate whether sibling troubles are related to well-being. It was predicted that well-being would be greater when more positive cognitive appraisals are generated to manage the stress engendered by these troubles than when fewer positive appraisals are made. Qualitative data regarding age-near same-sex siblings were solicited via open-ended questions. These data were coded for each indication of a benefit derived from sibling troubles. Respondents were 40 well-educated middle-class men and women in middle and late life. Using multiple regression analyses that controlled for socio-economic status and size of social support nen ork, results suggested that the use of positive cognitive appraisals of sibling troubles was related to positive affect, but not negative affect. Social support also contributed uniquely to positive affect. Notably, these.findings only applied to coping with sibling troubles originating in childhood, not in adulthood. The findings suggest a connection between sibling childhood experiences and well-being in adulthood Key Words: aging, siblings, social support, stress, well-being. Many adults do not have family in the traditional sense of a co-residing spouse and dependent children who are minors (Bedford & Blieszner, 1997). Kin are especially likely to constitute primary family ties for adults who have launched their children, the ever single, widowed, divorced, and childless (Troll, 1986). In the present study the focus is on one relationship category from the extended kinship family-the siblings of middle-aged and older adults. The family literature tends to focus on intergenerational and spousal relationships; however, sibling relationships have gained visibility in recent years (e.g., see literature reviews by Bedford, 1995, and Cicirelli, 1995). Although there are exceptions, siblings play an especially important and unique role in adulthood. Caring for and burying their parents, and settling the parental estate often bring siblings into close contact to accomplish common goals (Brody, 1990; Matthews & Rosner, 1988). As the most long-lived relationship, siblings may become valued increasingly with age as other relationships dissolve through divorce, death, and geographical relocation (e.g., Avioli, 1989). Siblings sometimes function as confidants and companions (Connidis & Davies, 1992), especially for women. Most people believe their siblings will provide help in a crisis (Bedford, 1995), which has been demonstrated at the onset of widowhood (Lopata, 1973). As the longest survivors of the original family, siblings also may become a valued repository of family memories and partners in shared reminiscence (Cicirelli, 1985: Goetting,1986; Gold, 1987). Siblings and well-being. Despite the important functions of siblings, little is known about sibling contributions to the wellbeing of adults. The few studies addressing this issue have focused on older adults. Generally speaking, frequency of contact with siblings shows no relation to well-being (Lee & Ihinger-Tallman, 1980) with one exception. O'Bryant (1988) found that widows who had more contact with their sisters had higher levels of positive affect than did those widows who had less contact with their sisters. Most studies have found other aspects of the sibling relationships to be relevant to well-being. McGhee (1985) found that for rural aged women, simply having a sister live nearby was associated with greater life satisfaction. Cicirelli found that the closer men and women over 65 felt to their sisters, the fewer symptoms of depression they had (Cicirelli, 1989). Consistent with these findings, Wilson, Calsyn, and Orlofsky (1994) found that the quality of the sibling relationship correlated more with morale than did frequency of contact. Little is known about the mechanisms that may link the sibling relationship to well-being. …