Today, narcissism is defined as the libidinal cathexis of the Self. Healthy narcissism, implies that the child, from infancy on, has effectively internalized a sense of physical, and later psychic, well being through interaction, first with the mother and later with other persons important to the child. Once the psychic structure begins to grow, the nature of the child's developing inner representations of the parents, and of the Self becomes apparent through behavior and affective relationships within the immediate environment. The child will cathect the parental figures and self experiences with love and joy, or with precursors of anxiety, signs of withdrawal, hyper-kinetic restlessness, or the first signs of somatization of psychic pain. The first Self is a body-Self and later includes, in addition to internalized interactions with mother, segments of the environment which are being continually explored through the child's developing ego functions. With the consolidation of gender identity, the earliest relationships of the child to objects gradually takes on more specific emotional qualities. As differentiation of Self from objects continues, the extent to which a libidinal cathexis toward Self and object dominates over a hostile relationship toward others becomes evident. If hostility is turned back upon the Self already during the second year of life displeasure and anxiety will characterize the child's relationship to love objects and the environment rather than a free and spontaneous exploration of it. Internalization of happy interactions with mother and others, and later identification with adults, promotes the expression of infantile omnipotent strivings in the practicing subphases (as Mahler has described) which takes place approximately between one-and-a-half and three years of age. It is crucial that the mother aid the child's