With the advancement of network technology, there has been an increase in the volume of data being transmitted across networks. Due to the bandwidth limitation of communication channels, data often need to be quantized or event-triggered mechanisms are introduced to conserve communication resources. On the other hand, network uncertainty can lead to data loss and destroy data integrity. This paper investigates the identification of finite impulse response (FIR) systems under the framework of stochastic noise and the combined effects of the event-triggered mechanism and uncertain communications. The study provides a reference for the application of remote system identification under transmission-constrained and packet loss scenarios. First, a congruential summation-triggered communication scheme (CSTCS) is introduced to lower the communication rate. Then, parameter estimation algorithms are designed for scenarios with known and unknown packet loss probabilities, respectively, and their strong convergence is proved. Furthermore, an approximate expression for the convergence rate is obtained by data fitting under the condition of uncertain packet loss probability, treating the trade-off between convergence performance and communication resource usage as a constrained optimization problem. Finally, the rationality and correctness of the algorithm are verified by numerical simulations.