ABSTRACT Intermediate-mass black holes (IMBHs) could form via runaway merging of massive stars in a young massive star cluster (YMC). We combine a suite of numerical simulations of YMC formation with a semi-analytic model for dynamical friction and merging of massive stars and evolution of a central quasi-star, to predict how final quasi-star and relic IMBH masses scale with cluster properties (and compare with observations). The simulations argue that inner YMC density profiles at formation are steep (approaching isothermal), producing some efficient merging even in clusters with relatively low effective densities, unlike models that assume flat central profiles resembling those of globular clusters after central relaxation. Our results can be approximated by simple analytic scalings, with $M_{\rm IMBH} \propto v_{\rm cl}^{3/2}$ where $v_{\rm cl}^{2} = G\, M_{\rm cl}/r_{\rm h}$ is the circular velocity in terms of initial cluster mass Mcl and half-mass radius rh. While this suggests IMBH formation is possible even in typical clusters, we show that predicted IMBH masses for these systems are small, $\sim \! 100-1000\, {\rm M}_{\odot }$ or $\sim \! 0.0003\, M_{\rm cl}$, below even the most conservative observational upper limits in all known cases. The IMBH mass could reach $\gtrsim 10^{4}\, {\rm M}_{\odot }$ in the centres nuclear star clusters, ultra-compact dwarfs, or compact ellipticals, but in all these cases the prediction remains far below the present observed supermassive BH masses in these systems.