Superhydrophobic coatings are vital in energy, aerospace, and chemical engineering, while their complex preparation and limited durability hinder widespread application. Therefore, inspired by the unique structures of hydrophobic cotton surfaces and mosquito eyes in nature, a durable aluminum alloy superhydrophobic surface is developed using a combination of femtosecond laser and chemical modification methods. Initially, porous microneedle micro-nanostructures are ablated on the surface of the aluminum alloy via femtosecond laser technology. Then, epoxy resin modified with γ-aminopropyl triethoxysilane (KH550) forms a covalently bonded intermediate layer. Finally, biphasic silicon dioxide (BP-SiO2) nanoparticles modified by hexadecyltrimethoxysilane (HDTMS) are used to construct the top hydrophobic layer. The covalent interface interactions between the aluminum alloy substrate and the intermediate layer, as well as between the intermediate layer and the top layer, significantly enhance the durability of the superhydrophobic surface. The prepared F-M@KH-EP/BP-SiO2 coating exhibits outstanding superhydrophobic properties, with a water contact angle (CA) as high as 168.56° and a sliding angle (SA) as low as 1.52° More encouragingly, the composite coating maintains its excellent water resistance even when subjected to harsh mechanical durability damage, including sandpaper wear, tape stripping tests, water drop and sand impact tests. Moreover, the prepared coatings maintain distinguished non-wettability in harsh operating conditions such as corrosive liquid environments, ultraviolet radiation, ultrasonic vibration, etc. Additionally, the coating demonstrates remarkable self-cleaning properties. Superhydrophobic surface durability is significantly enhanced by combining nanoparticle-induced bipolar interface effect and micro-nano structures. These findings provide theoretical reference for the design and application of durable superhydrophobic coatings.