Diethyl phthalate (DEP) is a typical environmentally organic pollutant, widely used in the production process of polyvinyl chloride (PVC) to improve the flexibility of plastic materials. Its interaction with living organisms can inflict considerable harm to reproductive system functions. This research aims to utilize tetrahydrofuran (THF) to selectively break the chemical bonds in PVC molecules to provide more adsorption sites. Then incorporates the plasticizing assembly process of PVC to instantly remove and recover DEP from wastewater, achieving waste utilization, and sustainable environmental development. The research found that PTFR with a concentration of around 75 mg/L shows the best DEP removal efficiency. Sequencing batch processing removes more DEP compared to direct processing under the same material usage conditions. Furthermore, the recovery rate of DEP can reach over 90%. The technology demonstrates notable enhancements in removal efficiency and adsorption duration when compared to conventional adsorption techniques. This research has established an instant and efficient method for DEP removal, providing a new idea and technology for plasticizer treatment in practical wastewater.