Target recognition and fine-grained ship classification in remote sensing face challenges of high inter-class similarity and sample scarcity. A transfer fusion-based ship image harmonization algorithm is proposed to overcome these challenges. This algorithm designs a feature transfer fusion strategy based on the combination of a region-aware instantiation and attention mechanism. Adversarial learning is implemented through an image harmony generator and discriminator module to generate realistic remote sensing ship harmony images. Furthermore, the domain encoder and domain discriminator modules are responsible for extracting feature representations of the foreground and background, and further align the ship foreground with remote sensing ocean background features through feature discrimination. Compared with other advanced image conversion techniques, our algorithm delivers more realistic visuals, improving classification accuracy for six ship types by 3% and twelve types by 2.94%, outperforming Sim2RealNet. Finally, a mixed dataset containing data augmentation and harmonizing samples and real data was proposed for the fine-grained classification task of remote sensing ships. Evaluation experiments were conducted on eight typical fine-grained classification algorithms, and the accuracy of the fine-grained classification for all categories of ships was analyzed. The experimental results show that the mixed dataset proposed in this paper effectively alleviates the long-tail problem in real datasets, and the proposed remote sensing ship data augmentation framework performs better than state-of-the-art data augmentation methods in fine-grained ship classification tasks.