Handbook on PenanceSelections from Book 3 John of Kent (bio) Since the twisting serpent is to be drawn out by a mid-wife’s hand, priests should take care lest during confession some mortal sin is passed over by their lack of foresight, and lest through their indiscrete questioning a sin, while believed to be drawn out, is occasionally introduced on account of the penitent’s curiosity. I do not think it easy to instruct priests in matters of this sort, for there are as many customs as there are people, and as many ways of thinking as there are heads. Hence, a manner of questioning which does not move many will move another person either to good or evil, and the reverse. Only one remedy remains for this urgent situation, namely that the grace of the Holy Spirit be thereupon invoked so that, with him going before as guide, every harmful thing may be avoided, and every profitable thing granted by the illumination of him who is the searcher of hearts. The penitential begins It is the custom of nearly all penitents to first greet their confessor, to whom the prudent priest, with a welcoming expression, gentle [End Page 145] words, and a rejoicing soul may respond thus: “It is well that you have come, brother.” Or rather, speaking thus: “May God grant you the grace of reconciling yourself to him, and of living henceforth in his love and doing his will in all things.” ________ Penitent: Lord, I come to you seeking counsel. Priest: My counsel is that you should desire to confess voluntarily, thoughtfully, openly, truly, and wholly to the almighty Lord God, so that God, looking upon your devout soul and not despising your contrite heart and humility, may mercifully consider you and forgive your sins. With you having been advised about all these things, and having a firm plan of everything that must be done, it is right that you come here seeking counsel from God and me so that you may perfectly account for the management of your entire life and make satisfaction to God for your sins. Penitent: It is true, lord, and this I devoutly implore. Priest: First, see that you firmly and wholly keep the faith of the holy Church, by which you will be illuminated, and see that you most confidently hope and entirely confide in the mercy of God. In this way you will be strengthened for the things that are to be suffered. See also that you love God above all things and your neighbor as yourself, as thus you may be more perfectly formed for the things that are to be done. Penitent: As much as is in me, lord, through the grace of God I will prepare myself for all these things. Priest: See also that you collectively and perfectly grieve over your sins. Grieve also because you forsook your heavenly father for sin, and for the fulfilling of your own will, and even the will of the devil, and because you offended God many times. Penitent: As much as I am able, I do grieve. Priest: Do you have the intention of making satisfaction to him and of not relapsing? Penitent: I have, lord. Let the priest then observe what the penitent shall say and what remains [End Page 146] to be investigated. Let the penitent speak by his own impetus what he has decided to confess. <1.> On lust Although the sin of lust is last in the order of the seven mortal sins, it is nevertheless first to be addressed. For it is frequently found in people, and the desire of confessing it is more fervent at the start of confession. The soul is also eager for confession and not affected by the tedium of other questions. As well, this kind of sin is dangerous to the interrogator and shameful for the speaker. However, if it is a woman who is confessing, and especially if she is young, and if the priest himself fears lest his or her fragile sensuality be moved through hearing carnal words, I counsel that he intermingle...
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