The main issue in the application of silicon-based negative electrode materials is the inevitable volume expansion, leading to negative electrode material fracture, which severely impacts the performance of batteries. This study employed Chemical Vapor Deposition (CVD) (C2H2@SiO), solid-phase coating method (Pitch@SiO), and liquid-phase coating method (RGFQ@SiO) to coat the surface of SiO materials with a dense amorphous carbon structure. Material property analysis revealed that C2H2@SiO has a relatively small specific surface area (1.8 m2 g−1) and surface carbon increment (2.4 %). It exhibited high reversible specific capacity (1563.4 mAh g−1), high initial Coulombic efficiency (81.45 %), and low volume expansion rate (9.3 %). Mechanical performance testing indicated that the surface carbon layer Young's modulus of C2H2@SiO was the highest (35 GPa), suggesting that using the CVD method to obtain a dense carbon layer can enhance the structural strength of the material. Based on the electrochemical-mechanical coupling theory simulation analysis of the stress during the charge-discharge process of electrode materials, the evolution of concentration and stress field during lithium insertion process was obtained, showing that the coating can further improve the electrochemical and mechanical performance of the negative electrode materials effectively. Additionally, the negative electrode sheets fabricated using sample C2H2@SiO were assembled into 18650 cylindrical batteries, exhibiting excellent cycling performance in 1000 cycles at 25 °C with a capacity retention rate of 85.7 %, along with good rate capability and high/low-temperature performance. The conclusions of this study provide certain guidance for the design and optimization of negative electrode materials for battery electrodes.