The Lie algebra of infinitesimal CR automorphisms is a fundamental local invariant of a CR manifold. Motivated by the Poincaré local equivalence problem, we analyze its positively graded components, containing nonlinearizable holomorphic vector fields. The results provide a complete description of invariant weighted homogeneous polynomial models in $$\mathbb C^N$$ , which admit symmetries of degree higher than two. For homogeneous polynomial models, symmetries with quadratic coefficients are also classified completely. As a consequence, this provides an optimal 1-jet determination result in the general case. Further we prove that such automorphisms arise from one common source, by pulling back via a holomorphic mapping a suitable symmetry of a hyperquadric in some (typically high dimensional) complex space.