Abstract: Blending personal narrative and ethnographic interviews with Asian American transformative justice practitioners, this piece of creative nonfiction brings an abolitionist perspective to bear onto recurrent debates concerning the a/political content of Asian American intergenerational conflict. Asian Americanists have rigorously outlined the political and historical foundations of intergenerational harm. Yet discussions about how we are to heal from that harm often remain at the level of the interpersonal, obscuring connections between our approaches to domestic conflict and broader political commitments. Building on erin Ninh’s (2011) argument that focusing on the Asian American familial drama is not an apolitical or ahistoric distraction from, but rather central to articulating an Asian American cultural materialist critique, I demonstrate how transformative justice approaches to intergenerational harm are central to efforts to move towards a horizon that is at once Asian American, feminist, and abolitionist. I do this by first interrogating the simultaneous irresistibility and insufficiency of dominant discourses about how children are to heal from parental abuse—discourses that prioritize clean breaks through mechanisms like reporting, leaving, changing, or inventing palatable narratives about abusers. I contrast these narratives with transformative justice approaches that delicately challenge structural forces motivating harm, while allowing survivors to claim anger and pursue diffuse, multiscalar, and imperfect forms of justice-seeking. While I ultimately argue that intergenerational healing must extend beyond the interpersonal, I demonstrate how experiments in healing within the familial realm are both reflective and generative of abolitionist efforts to bring into being worlds structured by transformation rather than disposability.