Family Harmony Research Articles

KELUARGA SAKINAH: IDEALISME DAN IMPLEMENTASI DALAM AL-QUR’AN

The Koran, as the holy book of Muslims, not only contains spiritual guidance but also provides ideal principles that influence various aspects of human life. This research aims to identify the elements of idealism contained in the verses of the Koran and how these principles are applied in building a sakinah family. This research uses a qualitative approach. The main source used is the Al-Quran text, while references from various literature, such as books, journals, websites are used as secondary sources to provide additional context and interpretation related to the implementation of Al-Quran values ​​in building a sakinah family. Research findings show that the Al-Qur'an as a guide in forming a sakinah family is an indisputable necessity. The Koran is not only a source of religious teachings, but also provides practical guidance in managing family relationships. Implementation of the values ​​of the Koran, such as love, understanding, patience and good communication, is a solid foundation for the success of creating a harmonious and peaceful family. The existence of the Koran as a guide ensures that every step taken by family members is based on the principles taught by the religion.

A Comparative Study of the Divorce Systems of the Tang Dynasty and Japan at the same Era

The system of divorce, which is a very important part of the marriage system, also formed a complete system and developed to its peak in the feudal era of the Tang Dynasty. In the process of economic, cultural and political exchanges between the Tang Dynasty and other countries, the divorce system of the late Asuka Period, the Nara Period and the early Heian Period in Japan, which corresponded to the Tang Dynasty, had a certain influence. This paper mainly combines the historical material "Tang Laws and Regulations" and Japanese "Pension Laws", "Household Marriage Laws" and other laws to carry out theoretical research, literature research method, and comparative research method. In the process of transplantation of Chinese law, it also reflects the different social ideologies of two different countries for the divorce system, and it produces a certain difference for the maintenance of harmonious family relations, social stability, and the sense of well-being of the divorce system to different.

Family bonds at risk: The spillover effects of workplace ostracism in the parent–child relationship

AbstractObjectiveThis study aimed to bridge the gap between occupational psychology and family psychology by exploring whether and how social connections in the workplace can lead to changes in family relations.BackgroundAmid intensified competition, workplace ostracism has become prevalent. However, its negative impacts on children, a vulnerable group within the family, have been largely neglected.MethodA cross‐sectional survey was conducted on a sample of 673 working parents from multiple companies, along with their children. This enabled us to examine the impacts of workplace ostracism on the parent–child relationship based on both parents' and children's data, with a specific focus on the mediating role of emotional exhaustion.ResultsThe consistent findings obtained from parents' and children's relationship ratings revealed that parents' reported workplace ostracism predicted parent–child conflict positively and parent–child closeness negatively. Parents' emotional exhaustion only partially mediated the relationship between workplace ostracism and parent–child conflict, whereas its mediation effect between workplace ostracism and parent–child closeness was found to be insignificant.ConclusionThe spillover effect of workplace ostracism can exacerbate conflicts and reduce closeness between parents and their children. Emotional exhaustion acts as the underlying mechanism linking workplace ostracism to conflict but not to closeness.ImplicationsPrograms designed to foster better intraorganizational relationships and promote individual emotion regulation skills may ultimately benefit family harmony.

Socialized co-present phone use and parent-child relationship satisfaction: A dyadic investigation with the indirect roles of self-disclosure and responsiveness

The social aspects of co-present phone use have increasingly attracted scholarly attention due to their potential impacts on interpersonal relationships. As a result, this study focused on two instances of socialized co-present phone use, namely shared phone use (ShPU) and social-intended solitary phone use (SISPU). Utilizing a dyadic approach, we examined the association between ShPU (and SISPU) and relationship satisfaction among 823 parent-child dyads (children: Mage = 15.33 years; parents: Mage = 42.74 years). Our study also investigated the indirect roles of self-disclosure and responsiveness in this association. The findings revealed a positive correlation between ShPU and SISPU and parent-child relationship satisfaction. Self-disclosure and responsiveness were found to be significant indirect pathways in this association. Additionally, the study identified specific effects of actor and partner within parent-child dyads. The practical implications of these findings included their potential to promote family harmony and improve parent-child relationships.

Peran Keluarga dalam Pencegahan Perilaku Kriminal pada Anak Kajian Kriminologi

Criminal behavior in children is a complex phenomenon and requires serious attention from various parties, including families. Criminology as a science that studies the causes and prevention of crime provides an important foundation in understanding the role of the family in preventing criminal behavior in children. This research aims to examine the role of the family in preventing criminal behavior in children from a criminological perspective. This study uses literature analysis methods to identify factors that influence children's criminal behavior and the role of the family in preventing it. The results of the analysis show that the family has a significant role in shaping children's character and behavior. Harmonious family conditions, open communication, and the formation of strong moral values can be protective factors in preventing children from being involved in criminal behavior. However, there are also risk factors in the family environment that can increase the likelihood that children will be involved in criminal behavior, such as domestic conflict, neglect, and domestic violence. Therefore, the role of the family in preventing criminal behavior in children needs to be strengthened through intervention programs that support the formation of a healthy family environment and support positive child development. This research concludes that to reduce crime rates among children, preventive measures must involve the active role of the family as the smallest unit in society. By understanding the factors that influence children's criminal behavior and the role of families in preventing it, effective intervention strategies can be designed to create a safe environment and support the quality growth of children.

URGENSI BIMBINGAN PRA NIKAH DALAM MENGUPAYAKAN KEHARMONISAN RUMAH TANGGA

Marriage is a very important dimension of life in human life. So it is not surprising that religions in the world regulate marriage issues even according to traditions or customs among local communities, and state institutions also do not lag behind in regulating marriages that apply among the community. The purpose of marriage according to the Islamic religion is to fulfill religious instructions in order to establish a harmonious, prosperous and happy family, harmony in exercising the rights and obligations of family members. Prosperous means the creation of inner and outer peace due to the fulfillment of life's and inner and outer needs, so that happiness arises, namely affection between family members Premarital guidance for those who are getting married is highly recommended because it provides provisions for both parties so that family life can be adjusted to religious guidance, and marriage can be able to give birth to a harmonious family

Longitudinal associations between family functioning and generalized anxiety among adolescents: the mediating role of self-identity and cognitive flexibility

BackgroundGeneralized anxiety (GA) is showing a high prevalence among adolescents nowadays; investigations on influencing factors and potential mechanisms are important to inform intervention development. The present two-wave study investigated the ways in which family functioning predicted GA six months later among adolescents, by considering the mediating role of self-identity and cognitive flexibility.MethodsAdolescents were recruited from 27 randomly selected classes in two secondary schools in Chongqing and Fujian Province, China. Survey questionnaires assessing family functioning, self-identity, cognitive flexibility and GA were obtained from 1223 adolescents (Mage = 13.14, SD = 1.35) at two time points of the 6-month interval.ResultsThe association between family functioning (T1) and GA (T2) was significant (r= -0.152, p < 0.01). Self-identity and cognitive flexibility sequentially mediated the relationship between family functioning (T1) and GA (T2) (with the indirect effect = -0.005, 95% CI = -0.007~ -0.002) after controlling for age, gender, and GA at baseline. Cognitive flexibility also showed a significant and direct mediating effect (with the indirect effect = -0.008, 95% CI = -0.012 ~ -0.005).ConclusionFindings indicated that family functioning can be a protective factor of GA, and self-identity and cognitive flexibility act as a crucial role in the association between family functioning and GA. Future studies should adopt more time points and long-term follow-up assessments using more robust approaches to improve the reliability of the study findings. Findings may offer some implications that building a harmonious, open and warm family and guiding adolescents to develop self-identity as well as more flexible cognitive style could be helpful to prevent and cope with anxious emotion.

Empowering Orphaned Children Through Counseling: Enhancing Life's Meaning

Counseling services are very important to help children find meaning in life and overcome the various problems they face as adults. Children are the future of the nation and need attention; many of them lose their identity during adolescence but can lead good lives with an intact family. The aim of this study is to understand the implementation of counseling services in developing the meaningfulness of life for orphans at the Al-Washliyah Orphanage in Lubuk Pakam, Indonesia. The method used is a qualitative approach. The subjects of this study are the children of the Al-Washliyah Orphanage in Lubuk Pakam, Lubuk Pakam District, Deli Serdang Regency, North Sumatra, Indonesia. The results of the study show that the success of the counseling services at the Al-Washliyah Orphanage in Lubuk Pakam can be seen from several indicators, such as understanding a clear purpose in life, knowing how to find meaning in daily activities, recognizing their potential and knowing how to develop it, valuing life experiences, having positive relationships with others, creating a harmonious family within the orphanage, feeling gratitude and accepting themselves without comparing themselves to others, being optimistic about their life choices, learning valuable lessons from suffering, and having spirituality with the belief that Allah SWT loves them. The activities provided by the counselors to the children in the orphanage include religious activities such as prayer guidance, teaching reading and writing of the Qur'an, and moral guidance. The children at the orphanage can understand their purpose in life through various processes and activities conducted during their stay.

TINJAUAN ‘URF TERHADAP TRADISI MANGGADAIKAN ANAK KARENA TA IMPOK PALAPA NDAYANG OLEH MASYARAKAT MUARA KANDIS PUNGGASAN

This research was conducted to examine the tradition of pawning children because of the ta impok palapa ndayang by the Muara Kandis Punggasan community. This tradition is a hereditary custom where children who have impok palapa ndayang will be pawned to the bako. This habit is believed by the community to protect children from bad things and maintain family harmony. This research aims to describe the process of implementing this tradition in Muara Kandis Punggasan and review the perspective of Islamic law ('urf) towards this custom. The research method used is qualitative with a descriptive approach. Data was collected through observation, interviews and documentation studies with informants consisting of communities directly involved in this traditional practice as well as local traditional leaders. The results of the research show that the process of implementing the tradition of pawning children involves several stages, including selecting the child who will be impok palapa ndayang, accepting the pawn by the bako, handing over the child, and redeeming the pawn. This tradition is carried out with the belief that if it is not implemented, it can have negative consequences for the family.

Keterlibatan Hakim Perempuan Sebagai Pekerja Publik Sekaligus Istri Dalam Mencipatakan Keluarga Yang Harmonis Perspektif Hukum Islam

A female judge has a dual role when the judge is married. It's not just work that needs to be done. However, work as a wife and housewife must also be considered. A female judge certainly has high consequences for work. Not only is he responsible for his work, a judge must of course be ready to be transferred to various court areas throughout Indonesia. Moreover, a female judge, who is basically a woman, also plays an important role in the family, especially. For example, serving your husband and having to educate and give love to your children. The focus of the research is related to the role of female judges in earning a living and in creating family harmony when they have to be transferred to areas far from their families. This thesis is a qualitative research type of field research with a normative approach. Meanwhile, technical data collection involves conducting interviews and documentation. The analysis used in this research is descriptive analysis with an inductive method.

Perspektif Qira'Ah Mubadalah Terhadap Sikap Posesif Istri Kepada Suami

Domestic violence is a global problem, including in Indonesia, with a high This research started from a case of domestic violence which experienced disharmony in carrying out its rights and obligations resulting in a wife's possessive attitude towards her husband. The formulation of the problem in the research is 1. What is Qira&gt;'ah Muba&gt;dalah's perspective on forms of possessive attitudes of wives in interpersonal relationships between husband and wife in Kauman District, Ponorogo Regency? and 2. What is Qira'ah Muba&gt;dalah's perspective on the rights and obligations of husband and wife in cases of possessive wives in Kauman District, Ponorogo Regency? This research is a type of qualitative field research. The analysis used in this research is descriptive analysis. The findings of this research show that the pattern of husband and wife relations in Kauman District, Ponorogo Regency, there is an imbalance in carrying out rights and obligations. The wife's possessive attitude creates discomfort and conflict, doubts the integrity of the family, and is contrary to the principle of Qira&gt;'ah Muba&gt;dalah. Marriage should be based on cooperation, mutual understanding, and balance in affection. A wife's possessive attitude which limits her husband in carrying out his obligations to earn a living can of course narrow the husband's career space and reduce his knowledge. This excessive control is not in line with Mubjadi's values ​​which emphasize mutuality, partnership and cooperation. Gender equality is important to maintain family harmony.

Analisis pengaruh kafa’ah maliyah dalam mewujudkan keharmonisan keluarga (studi kasus pada Kecamatan Buahbatu Bandung)

Every married couple aspires to have a harmonious family. However, many face challenges in achieving this, with conflicts such as arguments, differences in opinions, debates, and sometimes leading to divorce. One approach to address these issues is by seeking a compatible partner. Compatibility is considered effective as it aligns with the goals of marriage. Kafa’ah, including economic compatibility (kafa’ah maliyah), is deemed crucial for economic stability and family harmony. This research, conducted in the Buahbatu District, Bandung, aims to analyze the community's perceptions of kafa’ah maliyah and its impact on achieving family harmony. The qualitative case study method revealed diverse perceptions among the Buahbatu community, considering kafa’ah maliyah as vital for realizing family harmony. The influence of kafa’ah maliyah includes reducing financial conflict risks, enhancing cooperation in financial management, improving family stability and well-being, strengthening mutual respect and responsibility, and fortifying emotional bonds between spouses

BUILDING A HAPPY HOUSEHOLD: A MODEL OF HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP AND ITS IMPLEMENTATION IN THE FAMILY LIFE OF TABLIGH CONGREGATION.

This study aims to analyze the relationship model of married couples in Tabligh Jama'ah in Bandar Lampung City and Metro City. And to explore the actualization of the rights and obligations of married couples in maintaining family harmony in the tabligh congregation of Bandar Lampung City and Metro City. This field research intensively examines how the husband and wife relationship model in the family of tabligh congregation in Bandar Lampung City and Metro City. Data were collected using observation, interview, and documentation methods. The research informants consisted of six families. The data analysis technique used in this research is qualitative data analysis. Based on the results of the study, it was found that the husband and wife relationship model in tabligh congregation in Bandar Lampung City and Metro City is that the husband in the tabligh congregation family is absolutely the leader of the household, and this is also by Marriage Law No.1 of 1974 article 31 and Compilation of Islamic Law article 79. And the actualization of the rights and obligations of married couples in maintaining the household. The actualization of the rights and obligations of spouses in preserving family harmony in tabligh congregation Bandar Lampung City and Metro City includes 3 things, namely the fulfillment of alimony which is the right of the wife, decision making which is the right of both worshipers, as well as maintenance and protection.

THE INFLUENCE OF COMMUNICATION IN CREATING HOUSEHOLD HARMONY IN ACEH BARAT DISTRICT

Family harmony is a state where family members are united, each member fulfills their rights and obligations, affection is fostered, and mutual understanding, dialogue, and cooperation are well established, resulting in physical and spiritual well-being. This study aims to understand communication patterns in creating a harmonious household, analyze communication aspects influencing household harmony, and identify obstacles in creating a harmonious household. This research uses qualitative methods, where the researcher comprehensively examines the facts in the field according to the focus of the problem. The data obtained is then analyzed, presented, and discussed. Accurate and reliable data were collected through observation, interviews, and documentation techniques. The results of the study indicate that (1) communication patterns that can create household harmony include interpersonal communication, mutual trust and understanding, direct communication, and gentle communication; (2) communication aspects affecting household harmony include communication patterns and adjustments, the busyness of both spouses, financial issues, poor parenting, and lack of mutual trust. On the other hand, poor and ineffective communication results in household disharmony, as communication within the household is the main element for expressing all household life issues, and everything must be communicated openly and transparently. (3) obstacles to creating a harmonious household include poor communication, family aspects, economic aspects, infidelity, and lack of cooperation in nurturing, caring for, and guiding children. The responsibility for children is entirely handed over to the wife. At the same time, the husband only focuses on earning a living, thinking he must provide financially without assisting with household affairs. However, in maintaining a household, cooperation in all matters is essential.

Women and Modern Families: An Analysis of Quraish Shihab's Perspectives

In modern families, Islamic values are increasingly eroded due to the challenges posed by the advancement of information and communication technology. In contemporary Muslim families, wives often work outside the home but still serve as the primary educators within the family. This article aims to elucidate the concept of a harmonious family in the context of modern life, according to Quraish Shihab. The research employs a qualitative method with data collection techniques based on a literature review, examining Quraish Shihab's thoughts through his works from 1996 to 2022, encompassing ten books related to family issues. The findings reveal that Quraish Shihab places significant emphasis on the role of women and family. According to his works, including "Perempuan" and "Pengantin Al-Qur’an," a harmonious family involves prospective spouses getting to know each other before marriage, having a lawful marriage contract in Islam, and ensuring the presence of a guardian during the marriage ceremony. Couples should support each other, exchange roles, and maintain good communication. Shihab also highlights the importance of women's roles in working and education in modern families, advocates for balanced marriage ages, and outlines the conditions under which divorce is permissible in Islam. These principles are highly relevant to the realities faced by modern families today.

KETAHANAN DAN KEHARMONISAN KELUARGA DALAM PERBEDAAN PILIHAN POLITIK MENURUT TAFSIR AL-MISHBAH DAN TAFSIR AL-AZHAR

Differences in political choices are one of the causes of conflict in the family, which can even reach the stage of abuse and divorce between husband and wife. As happened in Batu Aji, Batam. This article aims to describe and analyze differences in political choices that result in conflict and violence. This article is the result of library research and data analysis from various sources. The result of this writing is about maintaining family resilience and harmony despite differences in political choices, namely by understanding and respecting each other. Then try to consult each other when faced with a problem. The Qur'an as a guide to life for mankind certainly provides many solutions to every problem. Including in this case, the author tries to understand and find ease in interpreting solutions to the content of the Al-Qur'an from the existing tafsir books.

EFEKTIFITAS PROGRAM PENYULUH AGAMA ISLAM DALAM MEWUJUDKAN KELUARGA SAKINAH DI DESA MARGA MUKTI

Every family dreams of having a sakinah family. However, not all families know the meaning and how to get a sakinah family. Especially in Dusun 1 Marga Mukti, there were still early-age marriages. Their parents thouhgt that marrying their children at an early age will reduce their burden and responsibility. Their parents did not think about the impact of early-age marriage. And also in this village, there were still existing domestic violence. Therefore, this village requires a religious counselor to develop the families in getting harmonious family. Based on observations were conducted by the researcher after coaching by an Islamic religious instructor in creating a sakinah family in Marga Mukti village, it can provide very good benefits so that they understand the importance of a Sakinah family and they have good attitude as taught by our prophet Muhammad SAW.

Analisis Kepercayaan Diri Remaja Melalui Pola Komunikasi Orang Tua Tunggal

A family exists because of a marriage consisting of a father, mother and other members. Every individual has a dream of a harmonious family. But in reality, not every family has a harmonious family. The cause of family disharmony occurs due to separation, whether due to divorce or the death of one of the parents. Separation due to divorce or death can have an impact on family communication patterns, especially with children in their teens. The family plays an important role in forming self-confidence in adolescents. Self-confidence in teenagers who come from disharmonious families tend to have low self-confidence (selfesteem). This research aims to find out how much influence parents' communication patterns have on teenagers' self-confidence. The method in this research uses a quantitative descriptive method by collecting data obtained from distributing questionnaires to teenagers aged 18-21 years who have single parents in Cipadung Village, Cibiru District with a sample size of 240. Using the Slovin formula with Likert scale measurements. The results of this research show that the communication pattern developed by single parents is an authoritative (democratic) communication pattern. The relationship between communication patterns and adolescent self-confidence has a significant and positive relationship so that single parent communication patterns influence adolescent self-confidence.

The Effectiveness of the “Golek Garwo” Matrimonial Tradition in Forming Harmonious Families

This article examines the effectiveness of the “Golek Garwo” matchmaking initiative organized by the Forum Ta’āruf Indonesia in facilitating the formation of harmonious families. The “Golek Garwo” event took place in Sewon Bantul, Yogyakarta. This study adopts a descriptive-analytical approach within the field research category. The primary data is sourced from alumni who have maintained successful marriages for 5 to 7 years. The findings indicate that the “Golek Garwo” program, managed by the Forum Ta’āruf Indonesia, has effectively contributed to the formation of harmonious family dynamics through arranged marriages. Predominantly, religiosity emerged as the principal determinant of marital harmony. Besides religiosity, several other supporting factors, including partner adjustment, effective communication, mutual openness, mutual understanding, and collaborative problem-solving, also strengthen marital cohesion

The Interpretation of the Meaning of al-Qarábah in the Qur'an and Its Contextualization with Contemporary Kinship Models (An Interpretative Approach Using the Maudhu'i Tafsir Method)

Based on the interpretation in the Qur'an, relatives (al-qurbá) are interpreted flexibly, according to the context of the conversation, both from the side of the mother's and father's relatives. However, traditional interpretations tend to emphasize the paternal family, reflected in the influence of patrilineal Arabic culture. In the contemporary era, the concept of family in anthropology has varied, including maternal or bilateral models. This study analyzes how the meaning of al-qarábah in the Qur'an with the approach of maudhu'i tafsir, tracing its conformity with the contemporary kinship model? The type of qualitative research and interpretive approach is carried out in order to be answered in depth, data collection through library research, so that the data collected is in the form of secondary data obtained from the books of scholarly interpretation. Content analysis is carried out by collecting verses related to the method of tafsir maudhu'i. As a result, the method of tafsir maudhu'i al-qarābah in Islam is divided into three levels: al-qarābah al-qarībah (very close uterine relationship), al-qarābah al-mutawassiṭah (mahram relatives), and al-qarābah al-baʿidah (non-mahram relatives). In the context of the modern family, kinship is understood through the biological dimensions (nasab/DNA), religion (brothers and sisters), and social (neighborly relationships). Fathers and mothers are considered the nucleus of the family in Islam, with mothers having primary responsibility for the upbringing, education, and inheritance of children in the event of a father's death, affirming protection and harmony in Muslim families.