Geogrid reinforcement is a feasible technique for improving the mechanical and deformation behaviors of calcareous gravelly sand that is predominantly distributed in reclaimed foundations as construction materials. However, the shear behavior of geogrid-reinforced calcareous gravelly sand still remains unclear. In this paper, a series of large-scale drained consolidated triaxial compression tests (the specimen 300 mm in diameter by 600 mm in height) were conducted to investigate the effects of confining pressure, moisture content and geogrid inclusion on the mechanical and deformation behaviors of calcareous gravelly sand. The dilation effect, strain-softening behavior, reinforcing effect and particle breakage characteristics of unreinforced and geogrid-reinforced calcareous gravelly sand were comprehensively analyzed and discussed. Additional analysis was also performed from a microscopic perspective using the three-dimensional discrete numerical modelling. The experimental results indicate that calcareous gravelly sand exhibited a greater resistance to strain-softening tendency, and produced a higher susceptibility to crushing under the same input energy than calcareous coarse sand. Geogrid inclusion can effectively mitigate the susceptibility of calcareous gravelly sand to volumetric dilation through constraining the lateral expansion within the reinforced zone, and thus substantially increased the peak shear strength. Moreover, particle breakage appeared to be insensitive to geogrid reinforcement and water content, but increased significantly with increasing confining pressures. The numerical results further indicate that the mechanical response of geogrids was regulated by axial strain and confining pressure. As axial strain was greater than 10%, increased confining pressure resulted in a wider area of stress concentration within the geogrid meshes, and the upper geogrid sustained a greater contact force and tensile strain. The findings in this study are of practical significance for the design and construction of structures in calcareous gravelly sand reinforced with geogrids.