In-silico simulations are a powerful tool in modern neuroscience for enhancing our understanding of complex brain systems at various physiological levels. To model biologically realistic and detailed systems, an ideal simulation platform must possess: (1) high performance and performance scalability, (2) flexibility, and (3) ease of use for non-technical users. However, most existing platforms and libraries do not meet all three criteria, particularly for complex models such as the Hodgkin-Huxley (HH) model or for complex neuron-connectivity modeling such as gap junctions. This work introduces ExaFlexHH, an exascale-ready, flexible library for simulating HH models on multi-FPGA platforms. Utilizing FPGA-based Data-Flow Engines (DFEs) and the dataflow programming paradigm, ExaFlexHH addresses all three requirements. The library is also parameterizable and compliant with NeuroML, a prominent brain-description language in computational neuroscience. We demonstrate the performance scalability of the platform by implementing a highly demanding extended-Hodgkin-Huxley (eHH) model of the Inferior Olive using ExaFlexHH. Model simulation results show linear scalability for unconnected networks and near-linear scalability for networks with complex synaptic plasticity, with a 1.99 × performance increase using two FPGAs compared to a single FPGA simulation, and 7.96 × when using eight FPGAs in a scalable ring topology. Notably, our results also reveal consistent performance efficiency in GFLOPS per watt, further facilitating exascale-ready computing speeds and pushing the boundaries of future brain-simulation platforms. The ExaFlexHH library shows superior resource efficiency, quantified in FLOPS per hardware resources, benchmarked against other competitive FPGA-based brain simulation implementations.