Perinatal death constitutes a major bereavement, the impact of which is felt by women and their families for many years following the experience. It is widely acknowledged that support is needed both at the time of death and for some time afterwards. Women may experience periods of grief or loss throughout their lives especially during times of crisis and/or stress and therefore these women may again be in need for support from healthcare professionals who come into contact with them at times of crisis not related to perinatal loss. This article examines the data from a small qualitative study on mothers’ experiences of stillbirth and illustrates some personal aspects of perinatal bereavement. Possible reasons for reflecting on perinatal loss years after it has happened are outlined and the potential involvement of healthcare professionals is addressed.