General declaration of a married couple together in front of friends and relatives placebo based on loyalty and love each other and support each other for life. A social relationship between two adults, confirmed, married couple defines the roles assigned to that commitment, mutual rights and obligations (Sanaee, 2015). Marriage is the most important and the most excellent practice to achieve social and emotional needs human security (sarookhani, 2010). Intimate relationship, platform support and shelter for humans in the real world challenges and is located in an intimate relationship, arelationship type oftreatment (Sanaee, 2015).In traditional societies to industrial societies, is more important, but in a new era for women's employment and economic independence of women, the process is delayed and (Sheikhi, 2001). Now in our society tend to fade and age of is rising On the other hand, there are all kinds of marriages, such as temporary marriage, concubineWhite Wedding and the rate of divorce for both formal and emotional rose (Rostami, 2015).White marriage is a phenomenon that has been observed in recent years in our country, as or cohabitation is also used for (Rostami, 2015). The marriage is derived from the French equivalent, which means a is unfinished or incomplete. Cohabitation without is a man and a woman. That is the way that men and women to live without or concubine flow between them trends under one roof. Usually this happens with the knowledge of parents and families takes place on both sides And the two lived together as a couple, not a house, friendly and Usually this happens with the knowledge of parents and families takes place on both sides And the two lived together as a couple, not a house, friendly and But in Iran due to the fact that society is an Iranian-Islamic community is not defined in any of such phenomena of this kind of life is done secretly. For this reason, we do not have statistics on the number of this kind of marriage.Having a healthy social relationship is the most important component of a healthy personality. All theories about the importance of social communication have argued that in some theories, such as theory of personal relations Sullivan view personal relationships form the foundation of it. Self-esteem, basic needs and social connections are important components of social (Miller, Teblom, Bround, & Fillisiyo, 1995). The most disturbing one of the most complex and inferiority complex personality problems. Children who feel they are depraved and backwardness less effort for success and doing things to the last beat (Parsa, 2001). One of the important human traits to achieve human goals ahead, self-esteem. Having a strong will and self-confidence, decision-making powers and ingenuity, creativity, sanity and mental health is directly related to self-esteem and sense of self-worth (Salahshour, 2000). Needs are not static structures, So there needs to further define that greatly influenced the theoretical framework for researchers who study required to pay; Therefore, it is natural that the needs, there are many classifications (Nasiri & Samani, 2008). In the late last century, identity is one of the unifying framework for intellectual debate is as it seems that everyone have something to say about it, Sociologists, anthropologists, political scientists, psychologists and philosophers are all so involved in this issue (Jenkins, translation Yarahmadi, 2002). The modern world has created enormous changes in different areas and if the members of a society is not in line with changes These changes can result in important sectors of society such as family, have long-term implications and negative effects. One of the issues many problems in the family phenomenon is white According to the and celibacy in youth activism and the emergence of a phenomenon called white in society, It is necessary to investigate the factors underlying this field of research to be done to counselors and family therapists can provide solutions for it to operate. …
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